Betrayal ?? Depression ?? Fehh....

If u were expecting another depressed soul crying his heart out...then better turn back and crawl back to whatever hole u popped out from or I'll whoop your sorry arse soo bad that you will wake up breathin through a tube in Haiti with witch doctors monitoring your pitiful condition.

This post (typed at 12 friggin AM !!) is dedicated to put all the garbled nonsense that ppl call "betrayal" and "depression" to rest. Now I am not doing this to pinpoint anyone or hurt their feelings but the recent posts about these soo called "betrayals" and "depressions" is just creating unrest and distortion in an already bamboozled or soon to be bamboozled community.

From what I see people are useing these 2 words either because :

A) They are really depressed or betrayed or both.
B) They think they are depressed or betrayed or both.
C) They just want to get comforted and pitied like others - who were depressed or betrayed.

The first two are the most common and the third is sooo farfetched that it wouldnt be possible, unless a person has no dignity and pride which is highly unlikely. So criterion C) can be ruled
out here.

For persons belonging to category B)...advices and medication can get them only soo far...what they really need is self belief,pride and ego ... even arrogance can do them good.

The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen.

Remember that what you believe will depend very much on what you are.

For persons belonging to category A)...their grit and determination should pull them through and at the end of it ...they will be a different person with renewed interest in life. If they are of the belief that life isnt simply worth living due to the loss of really intimate relatives or friends...they can either kill themselves then and there instead of pondering abt the meaning of life or they can do something meaningful with their lives that makes ppl around and above them happy.

Life isn't fair. It's just fairer than death, that's all.

What's gone and what's past help
Should be past grief.

The greatest griefs are those we cause ourselves.

Now that all the philosophical crazy talk is out of the way...I hav to say that I was rlly intigued that people kept using the words "betrayal" again and again in different contexts. This led me to believe that they are unaware of the true meaning of that word and that they are just using it because of its overuse and popularity among fellow peers.
Betrayal is when :

1) A person's husband or wife elopes with another woman/wife or man/husband.
2) A close friend spills his friend's deepest and darkest secrets.
3) A person feigns friendship with another only to use him/her for a specific purpose.


Again proof by exhaustion !!
The first one is rlly ridiculous...atleast isnt applicable for our age groups.

The second one is possible but not too probable for I dont think one is stupid or naive enough to confide in their secrets to everyone and anyone and when they do the probability of their friend ratting out on them is 1\146 310 234 898

The third case can be attributed to the victim's gullible and naive nature...soo they hav only themselves to blame.

4) Ppl under the misconception that they have been cheated upon by their friends (case 3 symptom) can also lead to bitterness and a feeling of betrayal. This is largely due to lack of understanding between 2 friends.

Ok..its time that I get some shut eye (its almost 1AM !!) and anyways I did enough beating abt the bush for one night(morning??).


BOTTOM LINE : It wud be better for you all not to pour out your feelings/emotions into a group blog like this as it doesnt help you nor others reading it in any way. Far from it, it leads to more posts on "depressions" and "betrayals" and soon the blog will b filled with nothing but this....evry1s cup of woes.

Soo I kindly request that you use your personal blog to pour out ur feelings or use IMs or the good ol' telephones if you rlly have to talk to someone abt your "depressions" and "betrayals".

P.S : If I had hurt anyone in anyway...I m truly rlly sorry coz thats not what I had meant to do. The blog was rotting away soo someone had to take the intiative and stop all the outburst of emotions. That is what I did...if anyone is rlly pissed off with my post...I encourage you to swear,bitch,moan and rant in teh comments. :D :D :P

Peace out [Y]......